The Good Life

Mon
05
Dec

Women - will we ever get it right?

Sex women orgasm

We all know that women can be very complicated. To make matters worse, scientists have made a new discovery to make man’s life even more difficult than it has been.

Women can multi-task, are difficult to fathom, take long to get dressed and are emotional, can change their mind at a whim and they rarely say what they mean. These are just some of the reasons men give me as to why they don’t understand women.

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Mon
05
Dec

To trust and love - or not to…

Finding love hurts

Love has left a lot of people feeling hurt. For some of those who have dared to dream, to trust and to love it has ended up in break-ups, divorce, a mess, a disillusion and feelings of hurt and sadness. Sometimes even repetitively.

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Wed
26
Oct

How firm is your….(Grip)?

Why is a firm handshake necessary

It’s interesting what attracts people. There are a number of things that attracts colleagues, friends, bosses or lovers on a personal and business level to others... and perhaps you would like to smarten up on what may or not be losing you that great opportunity on a personal or work level.

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Wed
26
Oct

It's YOUR sexuality after all

Sexuality in the modern world

I recently hosted a couch surfer for a night or two. It was interesting to learn about her European culture, way of life and her opinions on sexuality…

I also met her South African friend, an attractive female a lot younger than my 44 year-old visitor. We spent a lot of time chatting and I was mesmerised by the diversity displayed between us. It wasn’t only the ethnic groups, languages, backgrounds, education or religious differences that fascinated me. It was the fact that there was such openness and fascinating differences regarding sexual preferences and sexuality!

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Wed
19
Oct

5 Tips to save on groceries

Grocery shopping tips and tricks

5 Tips to save on your Grocery shopping

As our financial constraints are increasing and our cash is getting less, it is important that you start shopping smartly. Here are some tips that you may find practical and implementable to save you a rand or six when shopping.

  1. Start with the malls

Find cheaper malls (where you pay less for parking and without ‘luxury’ shops), avoiding the mall that has all your favourite shops and restaurants.

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Mon
26
Sep

Building up your partner

Tips for a better relationship

Many couples complain about the lack of intimacy. As physical intimacy starts with emotional intimacy, we’ve got some tips for you on how to make your partner feel good about themselves and about you.

  1. Use Kind words

It all starts with the kind of things you say to each other. “You’re an idiot” when you are both laughing at something, and when it goes along with a touch or a hug and it makes you both feel good. “You’re in an idiot” hurts when someone has tried their best, but inadvertently made a mistake.

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Mon
29
Aug

What's wrong, (with) Margaret?

Margaret van wyk did nothing wrong

Although many comedians try, it doesn’t often happen that our country is unified in laughter…. This past week, Margaret van Wyk was a laughing matter all over South Africa and all at her own expense. We say, there was nothing wrong with her original intention.

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Wed
17
Aug

What's in a name?

Why do we name a penis

Not only do we find alternative names for our sexual organs when we are children like banana, pecker, willie or weenie… we seem to name them as adults too.

Men give other men nicknames based on the size/colour/shape of their penis. Some men name their penis. Other men derive titles from their own penis. It seems that, for men, the world revolves around their ‘meneer, their old boy, their mini-me’.

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Fri
05
Aug

A rose by any other name

Calling spade a spade

There is no denying the fact that the names penis and vagina are really and truly ugly names for that part of the human anatomy that can bring so much joy. Why can we have such simple, pretty names for ears, arms, legs, eyes, lungs, hearts – but we have to call our private parts ‘penis’ and ‘vagina’?

In every language in every country, in every household and in every family, people, adults and parents have different names for the private parts of children.

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Wed
29
Jun

When sex is spoiled

When sex is spoiled

Sex is supposed to be fun – for both of you! Many men are under the impression that ANY sex is great.  As long as sex is being had, they are happy… The bad news is that there are times when sex is really unpleasant for your partner. I also think that there are men who don’t always enjoy sex either, but those are few and far between.

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