Sexpert

Every fairy tale is sealed with a kiss which marks the beginning of ‘Happy ever after’ and in every chick flick us girls wait with bated breath for that kiss that marks the confirmation of the fact that the main characters are in love...What is it that makes a kiss so special and makes our hearts beat chocolate...even at the mere sight of it on screen? Is it the same for guys? Do you also meet a person, start liking them and fantasize about the first kiss?

Women decide what to eat based upon whether they are in male or female company! If there are males present, they will invariably eat a meal that contains lower calories. In a study done at McMaster University in Canada, it was found that women adapt their eating when in the company of males, invariably opting for healthier and smaller portions. I realise that the study group’s observation, was indeed, proven by my friends. When we are only girls around the table, we will enjoy that delicious caramel meringue, even tasting and savouring each others’ decadent calorie-laden treats.

Please tell me - is it a physical attribute you notice about a person that you are first attracted to, or is it a quality you get to know, admire and love, or is it, simply...chemistry? Are these separate aspects we notice at different stages, or are they sensed, measured and judged in the first instant? Please understand what I’m talking about: you know what you like in a girl or a guy – butt, eyes, smile, legs, mouth etc. – and that is what may attract you at first.

We all know that men can get up to really silly behaviour. Especially when they are drunk. I’ve seen grown adult males (with children of their own) wrestle in their mother’s lounge, despite glass tables, ornaments and real children in the immediate vacinity. I have seen Youtube videos and real-life situations which have left me marveling at the stupidity of the male species. I have had women cry on my shoulder because they feel betrayed and hurt by the behaviour of their man – especially when the man just "doesn’t know why” he did what he did.