Sexpert

Mon
24
Nov

Why do women like kissing?

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“It’s in his kiss” Cher sings: and the woman’s right! Although loves’ first kiss is much dreamed about and sought after, it can happen only once. And even though the first kiss can seal or ruin a relationship, the kisses thereafter are what makes or breaks it. Yes, of course there is more to any relationship than just kissing, but any girl will tell you that she is bound to forgive you many things if you kiss her right (and often)!

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Thu
20
Nov

First kiss magic

First Kiss Magic

Every fairy tale is sealed with a kiss which marks the beginning of ‘Happy ever after’ and in every chick flick us girls wait with bated breath for that kiss that marks the confirmation of the fact that the main characters are in love...What is it that makes a kiss so special and makes our hearts beat chocolate...even at the mere sight of it on screen? Is it the same for guys? Do you also meet a person, start liking them and fantasize about the first kiss?

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Wed
05
Nov

It's not in the size

It's not in the size

Allow me the opportunity to bust a myth. A fallacy, so to speak... How many jokes, embarrassments, adverts and stories have been based on the “fact” that with cars, diamonds, and men’s penises, size do count? There are people (men with small brains and big willies perhaps) who spread the “truth” that the size of a man’s penis is all important. Apparently, girls prefer men with big male organs to those with smaller ones...I wonder why that would be. Perhaps because it looks impressive? Could it by implication mean increased pleasure? Or is that how a man’s “masculinity” is measured?

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Wed
22
Oct

Women, Food and Eating

Woman Sex and Food

Women decide what to eat based upon whether they are in male or female company! If there are males present, they will invariably eat a meal that contains lower calories. In a study done at McMaster University in Canada, it was found that women adapt their eating when in the company of males, invariably opting for healthier and smaller portions. I realise that the study group’s observation, was indeed, proven by my friends. When we are only girls around the table, we will enjoy that delicious caramel meringue, even tasting and savouring each others’ decadent calorie-laden treats.

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Tue
07
Oct

Not So Hot Habits

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All the men’s magazines will offer advice on how to grow muscles, flatter women and have the best sex ever. Culture, tradition, manliness (call it what you like), but if you want to impress a woman, there are some things men should simply not do in front of the fairer sex. I’ve decided to give you a little list of things that turn woman OFF. And I mean OFF. Read it, if you dare. 1. There are things you do as men which are, well, a man’s thing. We understand, and it’s okay. Just do it in private where absolutely no one can see you. Like picking your nose. 2.

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Fri
03
Oct

Instant Attraction

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Please tell me - is it a physical attribute you notice about a person that you are first attracted to, or is it a quality you get to know, admire and love, or is it, simply...chemistry? Are these separate aspects we notice at different stages, or are they sensed, measured and judged in the first instant? Please understand what I’m talking about: you know what you like in a girl or a guy – butt, eyes, smile, legs, mouth etc. – and that is what may attract you at first.

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Tue
26
Aug

Let’s talk about Sex, Baby!

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In our society, not too long ago, it was deemed improper to speak about ‘such things’ as sex. Nowadays, single girls may choose to have a baby out of wedlock without fear of banishment or humiliation. Shacking up with someone before marriage seems to be the norm, and sex before marriage (and without) is common practice. In fact, if one chooses celibacy, it is questioned, even frowned upon.

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Tue
12
Aug

Let him run wild…occasionally!

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We all know that men can get up to really silly behaviour. Especially when they are drunk. I’ve seen grown adult males (with children of their own) wrestle in their mother’s lounge, despite glass tables, ornaments and real children in the immediate vacinity. I have seen Youtube videos and real-life situations which have left me marveling at the stupidity of the male species. I have had women cry on my shoulder because they feel betrayed and hurt by the behaviour of their man – especially when the man just "doesn’t know why” he did what he did.

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Tue
12
Aug

He’s just not that into me…or is he?

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The book (and movie) “He is just not that into you”, explains men, dating and relationships in no uncertain terms: No matter what excuse us women can dream up to pardon a man’s behaviour: If he does not call, does not want to come in, does not communicate – he is simply not interested in you!

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Fri
25
Jul

Giving her the finger! (phase 2)

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You have read many times before, that girls just want to have fun. You also know that they are different from the male species and are not always in the mood. Sometimes, even you are not in the mood either. Often, playing with one another’s sexual parts is a quick way of getting yourself and your partner in the mood, and if it leads to mutual satisfaction... well, then it’s more than mission accomplished.

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