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Fri
05
Aug

A rose by any other name

Calling spade a spade

There is no denying the fact that the names penis and vagina are really and truly ugly names for that part of the human anatomy that can bring so much joy. Why can we have such simple, pretty names for ears, arms, legs, eyes, lungs, hearts – but we have to call our private parts ‘penis’ and ‘vagina’?

In every language in every country, in every household and in every family, people, adults and parents have different names for the private parts of children.

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Wed
29
Jun

When sex is spoiled

When sex is spoiled

Sex is supposed to be fun – for both of you! Many men are under the impression that ANY sex is great.  As long as sex is being had, they are happy… The bad news is that there are times when sex is really unpleasant for your partner. I also think that there are men who don’t always enjoy sex either, but those are few and far between.

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Fri
03
Jun

Where to meet that special someone?

Where to meet the right person

Where do I go to meet someone new? I have asked and been asked this question many a time. If you meet a person in a pub or bar, and later on the partner hangs out at these places too often or drinks too much…can you complain? Is that not where you met them, so you knew these would probably stay their habits?

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Wed
25
May

How far would you go to please?

Pleasing my partner

You already know that women can have multiple orgasms…and you already know (or at least suspect) that your woman has probably faked one (or some). The question is: what are you doing about it? It is true that modern-day women are sexually emancipated creatures who speak their mind and are more than willing to speak about it and do ‘things’ that weren’t ‘allowed’ in the past. They are all too willing to please their men, and are eager to find ways and alternatives to please themselves and their partners.

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Mon
21
Mar

Fantasy, fetish or freaky?

Fantasy fetish or freaky

A male friend of mine has no interest in looking at a girly magazine photo if the models’ feet (or shoes) are not visible. He doesn’t find it sexy without the feet. And he takes photos of the feet of his female visitors. His wife has learned to live with his foot fetish, as she gets free weekly pedicures out of it.

For me, it’s just weird. But it is actually an acknowledged fetish, and is a commonly known as paraphilia (the term for unusual sexual behaviours). There are many of these unusual behaviours – some researchers claim there are 547 of them!

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Fri
11
Mar

Crouch, touch, pause...engage

Crouch touch engage

The rugby season is getting into full swing and Rugger Buggers will have to make sure they maintain territorial advantage by not neglecting the ladies in their life too much. Here are some tips to prop you up during the season, keeping you in the red zone. We wouldn’t want any loose heads hanging around during or after the season…

A man feels empowered when he is wearing his jumper and his team wins. Testosterone is flowing and a guy needs to make his mark. In order to score, you’ll have to be ahead of your usual game. So:

Crouch:

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Fri
12
Feb

Think out of the heart-shaped box this Valentine’s

Spice up valentines

It happens to just about every relationship, you both get way too comfortable with each other, and you end up doing the same things week in and week out, and you usually fall into the same routine of sex on a Tuesday at 17:30 – for example. The fire disappears, the passion becomes a thing of the past and although you enjoy spending time together, there is just that little bit of adventure and spontaneity that’s missing. Being in a long term relationship is a comfortable place to find yourself in, however, don’t you wish there was a bit more flare?

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Wed
10
Feb

7 Tips to get it right this Valentine's day

Plan valentine's well this year

For those who live under a rock and don’t know it yet, Valentine’s day is on Sunday and can at best of times put unwanted pressure on relationships and can confuse the smartest of men, we know. Read on to ensure you don’t mess up on this big day, again.  

No matter what she says, or how long you have been in the relationship, or that you ‘celebrate Valentine’s day every day’, nor what your arrangement and agreement is, and how you both ‘feel’ about Valentine’s day: she WANTS to feel special and she WANTS you to show her you love her, so read on!

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Wed
23
Dec

8 Sex tips for the holidays

Sex tips for the holidays

When you’re on holiday, you often feel it’s time to do those things that you don’t get around to (enough) during the year. Sex, unfortunately, being one of them. Well, let’s get you on your way then. Follow these tips:

 

 

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Mon
09
Nov

I want it! Now!

I want it now

The story goes that men think of sex almost every 80 seconds. They also want it just as often. Women? Well, not that much.

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