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Mon
26
Jun

Dangerous Sex

Samen dangerous sex image

Of course, sex is supposed to be fun, and if it isn’t you’re probably doing it wrong. Lately, I’ve come across several instances where sex has been downright dangerous. So, here are some dangers under the spotlight.

Pregnancy

You know that pregnancy is a side effect of sex, we know. Yet, during 2015, 15000 pupils fell pregnant. Seems the sex education being taught in high school is failing. In my immediate friendship circle, three unexpected, unmarried pregnancies have occurred within the last year. All for adults close to thirty.

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Wed
10
May

Like Lovers Do

Like lovers do

To be in love with someone is to accept them and be yourself in front of them, right? We are all guilty of ‘disgusting’ habits in front of our partner – things they do not particularly like or approve of.

Although there are some things we can keep away from our partners, we seem to settle into a zone of comfort when you feel loved and accepted. This leads to us doing things in front of our partners that we would never do in public and would definitely not do if the relationship was still new.

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Thu
04
May

Time to explore

Sex toys

Although there are adult shops everywhere, one seems to have to know what you want and what everything is for when you walk through the door. Even if you are brave enough to ask the shop assistant about the stuff on sale, most shop assistants seem to be shy about the items and do not offer much advice.

I recently attended a sex toy party and found it both fascinating and enlightening. Armed with a bottle of wine and a favourite, open-minded friend, I was ready to ‘talk dirty’. I was both surprised and impressed by what I got to see and hear!

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Fri
17
Feb

The Soul Connection

What makes a marriage successful

Friends of mine are celebrating their 23rd wedding anniversary. Their parents are celebrating their 65th wedding anniversary this year. Marriages that last long and are successful seem to be the exception rather than the rule.

Why do some marriages last long, while others don’t? What is the secret? We have asked a number of successful couples what their secret is.

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Wed
25
Jan

Pick-up lines that work

Pick up line tips

We all know the importance of first impressions. And when you are out to meet someone new, your first impression better be a good one. After the initial scoping and ocular approval, you had better say the right words when striking up a conversation.

Here are some useful hints for pick-up lines:

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Mon
05
Dec

Women - will we ever get it right?

Sex women orgasm

We all know that women can be very complicated. To make matters worse, scientists have made a new discovery to make man’s life even more difficult than it has been.

Women can multi-task, are difficult to fathom, take long to get dressed and are emotional, can change their mind at a whim and they rarely say what they mean. These are just some of the reasons men give me as to why they don’t understand women.

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Wed
26
Oct

It's YOUR sexuality after all

Sexuality in the modern world

I recently hosted a couch surfer for a night or two. It was interesting to learn about her European culture, way of life and her opinions on sexuality…

I also met her South African friend, an attractive female a lot younger than my 44 year-old visitor. We spent a lot of time chatting and I was mesmerised by the diversity displayed between us. It wasn’t only the ethnic groups, languages, backgrounds, education or religious differences that fascinated me. It was the fact that there was such openness and fascinating differences regarding sexual preferences and sexuality!

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Mon
26
Sep

Building up your partner

Tips for a better relationship

Many couples complain about the lack of intimacy. As physical intimacy starts with emotional intimacy, we’ve got some tips for you on how to make your partner feel good about themselves and about you.

  1. Use Kind words

It all starts with the kind of things you say to each other. “You’re an idiot” when you are both laughing at something, and when it goes along with a touch or a hug and it makes you both feel good. “You’re in an idiot” hurts when someone has tried their best, but inadvertently made a mistake.

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Mon
29
Aug

What's wrong, (with) Margaret?

Margaret van wyk did nothing wrong

Although many comedians try, it doesn’t often happen that our country is unified in laughter…. This past week, Margaret van Wyk was a laughing matter all over South Africa and all at her own expense. We say, there was nothing wrong with her original intention.

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Wed
17
Aug

What's in a name?

Why do we name a penis

Not only do we find alternative names for our sexual organs when we are children like banana, pecker, willie or weenie… we seem to name them as adults too.

Men give other men nicknames based on the size/colour/shape of their penis. Some men name their penis. Other men derive titles from their own penis. It seems that, for men, the world revolves around their ‘meneer, their old boy, their mini-me’.

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